Love and the minor arcana
- Jacqueline Kaiser
- Feb 3
- 3 min read

✨ Love & the Ones (Aces): the spark ✨
Aces in love are beginnings.
Chemistry. Curiosity. That moment when something clicks.
✨ Ace of Cups — emotional openness, new love, the heart cracking open.
✨ Ace of Pentacles — a relationship with real potential, something stable and tangible.
✨ Ace of Wands — passion, desire, attraction you can’t ignore.
✨ Ace of Swords — clarity, honest conversations, truth cutting through confusion.
Aces ask:
Are you open to starting again?
And are you willing to receive what’s being offered?
✨ Love & the Twos: choosing each other ✨
Twos are about awareness in connection.
This is where love becomes mutual — or reveals where balance is missing.
✨ Two of Cups — emotional reciprocity, equal give and take.
✨ Two of Pentacles — juggling love with life, priorities being tested.
✨ Two of Wands — considering a future together, wondering what’s next.
✨ Two of Swords — emotional walls, avoidance, refusing to choose.
Twos ask:
Are you choosing from alignment… or fear?
✨ Love & the Threes: expression & truth ✨
Threes bring emotion into motion.
Connection deepens — or cracks begin to show.
✨ Three of Cups — joy, friendship, shared happiness.
✨ Three of Pentacles — building something real together.
✨ Three of Wands — growth, long-distance love, waiting for what’s unfolding.
✨ Three of Swords — heartbreak, third-party energy, truth that hurts but heals.
Threes ask:
What needs to be expressed — even if it’s uncomfortable?
✨ Love & the Fours: foundations & boundaries ✨
Fours want stability.
But sometimes comfort becomes control.
✨ Four of Cups — emotional withdrawal, disinterest, missed opportunities.
✨ Four of Pentacles — possessiveness, fear of loss, holding on too tightly.
✨ Four of Wands — commitment, harmony, feeling at home together.
✨ Four of Swords — needing space, healing, emotional rest.
Fours ask:
Is this safe — or just familiar?
✨ Love & the Fives: growing pains ✨
Fives bring friction.
Love being tested, not ended.
✨ Five of Cups — grief, regret, focusing on what went wrong.
✨ Five of Pentacles — emotional abandonment, feeling unsupported.
✨ Five of Wands — conflict, mixed signals, power struggles.
✨ Five of Swords — winning arguments, losing connection.
Fives ask:
What is this relationship teaching you about yourself?
✨ Love & the Sixes: healing & harmony ✨
Sixes soften the edges.
They bring peace after chaos.
✨ Six of Cups — past love, soul ties, familiar energy.
✨ Six of Pentacles — mutual effort, healthy give and take.
✨ Six of Wands — feeling chosen, celebrated, seen.
✨ Six of Swords — moving on together… or apart.
Sixes ask:
Does this feel lighter?
✨ Love & the Sevens: honesty required ✨
Sevens ask you to look deeper.
No illusions. No avoidance.
✨ Seven of Cups — confusion, fantasy, unrealistic expectations.
✨ Seven of Pentacles — waiting, patience, questioning the investment.
✨ Seven of Wands — defending the relationship, standing firm.
✨ Seven of Swords — secrecy, betrayal, emotional dishonesty.
Sevens ask:
What truth are you avoiding?
✨ Love & the Eights: commitment or release ✨
Eights demand action.
You can’t stay stagnant here.
✨ Eight of Cups — walking away, emotional maturity.
✨ Eight of Pentacles — putting in the work, choosing growth.
✨ Eight of Wands — fast-moving romance, sudden communication.
✨ Eight of Swords — feeling trapped, fear-based thinking.
Eights ask:
Are you choosing love… or comfort?
✨ Love & the Nines: emotional maturity ✨
Nines reflect self-awareness.
Love that knows itself.
✨ Nine of Cups — emotional satisfaction, desires fulfilled.
✨ Nine of Pentacles — independence within love.
✨ Nine of Wands — guarded hearts, perseverance.
✨ Nine of Swords — anxiety, overthinking, sleepless nights.
Nines ask:
Are you loving from wholeness?
✨ Love & the Tens: completion & destiny ✨
Tens are the outcome.
The truth of the connection.
✨ Ten of Cups — emotional fulfillment, lasting love.
✨ Ten of Pentacles — long-term commitment, family, legacy.
✨ Ten of Wands — emotional burnout, carrying too much alone.
✨ Ten of Swords — painful endings, final closure.
Tens ask:
Is this love meant to continue… or conclude?

